Thoughts: The Sisters Are Alright by Tamara Winfrey Harris

sisters are alright

The Sisters Are Alright is first of all a love note Tamara Winfrey Harris has written to other black women. It’s a warm, welcoming book that celebrates their complexities and humanity. I hope Harris’ book will be a gift given to many young black girls. I read this book to understand the specific lived experience of black women in the United States, become a better ally and just rejoice in the celebration of women of color.

“Black women’s stories look a lot different from what you’ve heard. And when black women speak for themselves, the picture presented is nuanced, empowering, and hopeful”

Some of you might know the author from her blog What Tami Said or from her editor work on Racialicious. In her first book, Harris starts by introducing the history of propaganda against black women and the major harmful stereotypes that were introduced during slavery and have become the backbone of the current racist, sexist society of the US. This first part will be very educational for anyone not part of the target audience, but it is tough reading as Harris covers everything from Sapphire to the welfare queen and the Moynihan Report to hurtful current beauty and marriage double standards.

Harris shows how stereotypes of the ‘angry black women’ are still pulled out even on successful women like Shonda Rhimes or Michelle Obama. Or how the myth of the ‘strong black women’ hurts black women emotionally or physically, causing stress and serious health issues when they try to appear strong all their lives.

But Harris writes engagingly and encouragingly, dismantling these misogynoir traps and interspersing them with little boxes called ‘Moments in Alright,’ which shows that black women are indeed alright. Here Harris presents snippets about black women as successful business owners, achieving amazing educational goals and more.

There’s one caveat, but Harris is very upfront about it, the women she interviewed and focused on are largely well-off middle-class and for the most part straight. Make sure to read about these experiences, too. Recommendation: Black Girl Dangerous on Race, Queerness, Class and Gender by Mia McKenzie.

If you’re on a tight budget, like me, the book is even available on Scribd. And isn’t the cover the best thing ever? The Sisters Are Alright is also my first read for the Diversity on the Shelf Challenge this year.

Have you reviewed this book? Let me know and I’ll add a link!

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22 thoughts on “Thoughts: The Sisters Are Alright by Tamara Winfrey Harris

  1. Interesting book, Bina. I loved the title. Made me think of the movie ‘The Kids are Alright’. I loved your description of how the book traces the stereotypical descriptions of women of colour and how it debunks those descriptions using real-world examples. Looks like a wonderful book. Thanks for introducing me to a new-to-me writer.

    1. Yay, glad to hear you like the sound of the book, Vishy! 🙂 It’s wonderful to hear about the experiences of the women Harris interviewed!

      1. Yaay! Yes, we added it. 🙂 It’s still a bit expensive here.

        Amazon’s ‘Great Indian Sale’ begins today. Let me see if I can grab some nice books. 🙂

      1. Of course websites, and the content creators behind them, are the heart of the web. Thanks for letting me about your review.

        You mentioned #DiverseBookBloggers who are they? Is there a list of websites?

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